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woman taking a planned rest break while pacing an activity with chronic pain

July 21, 2026 · In: Habits for Healing, Holistic Self-Care and Sustainable Healing

Pacing for Chronic Pain: The Skill No One Teaches You (And How to Actually Start)

Pacing uses time and effort, not pain, as your guide for activity. Instead of pushing until symptoms force a stop, you break tasks into smaller windows with built-in rest, so…

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Hardwood floor flat lay with weights, a jump rope, a yoga mat, and a water bottle, representing the tools used for rebuilding strength after a chronic pain flare

June 30, 2026 · In: Movement, Strength for Resilience

Strong Looks Different Now: Rebuilding Strength After a Chronic Pain Flare

I was standing in front of the dumbbells in my garage gym a few weeks ago and I caught myself reaching for the weight I used to lift without thinking….

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signs your body is healing

May 26, 2026 · In: Pain Science and Healing, Science-Backed Education

Signs Your Body Is Healing (If Pain Is the Only Thing You’re Measuring)

It can be frustrating to feel like nothing is improving, especially when you are putting in the effort and still dealing with the same level of pain. Most people use…

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working out with chronic pain

March 31, 2026 · In: Holistic Self-Care and Sustainable Healing, Navigating Long-Term Pain

Strong Looks Different Now: Working Out With Chronic Pain in Real Life

I sat there the other day thinking about working out. I had time, I had a plan, and I even felt a little motivated. And I still didn’t do it….

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consistent exercise with chronic pain

March 10, 2026 · In: Movement, Moving Without Flaring

Consistent Exercise With Chronic Pain: How to Keep Going on Good and Bad Days

Consistent exercise with chronic pain can feel like an impossible goal. You may be committed to staying active, yet symptoms fluctuate in ways that make it hard to follow a…

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hip pain when walking

March 3, 2026 · In: Body Region Support, Hip, Science-Backed Education

Hip Pain When Walking: Understanding Diagnoses, Mechanics, and Tolerance

Hip pain when walking is a common complaint, especially for people who stay active or spend long hours on their feet. For some, hip pain starts during workouts, lifting, or…

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I'm a practicing physical therapist based out of sunny SoCal who loves to educate others and share information and knowledge. You can typically find me hard at work trying to manage normal life or cuddled up under a blanket enjoying coffee or desserts I can never seem to get away from!

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I stood in front of my fridge for an hour. Couldn’ I stood in front of my fridge for an hour. Couldn’t decide, not even sure I was hungry. Just stuck. And one decision felt like the hardest thing I’d been asked to do all day, even though I’d made decisions all day long without a second thought.

I kept wondering what was wrong with me. Turns out, nothing was.

Fight, flight, and freeze are all protective responses your nervous system reaches for under threat. Fight and flight speed you up. They give you the energy to push back or get away. Freeze does the opposite. It shuts things down because there’s nothing left to fight with or run from.

That fridge moment wasn’t a discipline problem. It was my nervous system running out before dinner could be decided and made.

Freeze doesn’t get talked about as much as fight or flight, but it’s just as real and it shows up in the most ordinary places…a kitchen, a closed laptop, a decision that shouldn’t be hard and somehow is.

If you’ve had a night like this, you already know exactly what I’m talking about.

If this sounds familiar, tell me in the comments, or text someone who’d know exactly what I mean.
I reached for the weights I used to lift before my I reached for the weights I used to lift before my brain caught up.

It took half a second in my garage. The half second was the moment I realized I couldn’t even lift the dumbbell. I registered the gap between the body I used to train and the body I have now.

I dialed back down. Instead of the 30s, I picked up the 10s, and I did the work that fits what my system can absorb right now.

Nobody warns you that the rebuilding work has these moments built into it. The half-seconds when your old identity reaches for a load your current capacity can’t carry, and you mistake the disappointment for evidence that you are failing.

Your current body is not a smaller version of the one you used to have. It is a different body, doing real work, on a different scale.

You can train this one.

Tag the woman who’s still reaching for the weight she used to lift. Remind her she’s not alone.
I currently do not squat, lunge, or deadlift. I g I currently do not squat, lunge, or deadlift.

I get why everyone defaults to these movements. They’re efficient, they build strength, and if your body can tolerate them, there’s nothing wrong with having them in a program.

For a long time, I assumed that if I pushed through it, my body would eventually catch up. That’s not how it works when you’re dealing with chronic pain. Pushing through leads to a setback fast.

Your back is tied directly into what your hips and legs are doing. Careful form can only take it so far out of the equation, especially when weakness is involved.

A few months ago, I was doing bodyweight versions of these same exercises at home. Every time, it aggravated my back. So I stepped back to isolated machines instead.

Here’s what made it click. I couldn’t even tolerate a leg extension machine at 30lbs. I weigh about 120. There was no version of me safely squatting my own bodyweight and that’s still true right now.

Isolated machines do exactly what they’re built for. They isolate one muscle group and take my back out of the equation so I can still train and progressively add weight at a pace that’s safe for my body.

If a compound lift keeps interfering with your back, this is where I’d start looking instead.

If this is the kind of order-of-operations thinking that’s useful to you, hit follow. That’s exactly what I break down here.
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