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shoulder instability

December 17, 2024 · In: Movement, Strength for Resilience

7 Important Exercises for Shoulder Instability

Shoulder instability is a condition that can significantly impact both athletic performance and everyday life. It occurs when the humerus (upper arm bone) is forced out of the glenoid fossa….

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core stability exercises

December 10, 2024 · In: Movement, Strength for Resilience

Unlock Your Athletic Potential With Core Stability Exercises

Core stability. We all hear it, but what is it? It does refer to the core, and a strong one, at that. But core stability is much more than just…

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engage your core

December 3, 2024 · In: Pain Science and Healing, Science-Backed Education

What It Actually Means to ‘Engage Your Core’

We’ve all heard it before. You’re in a fitness class or you’re working out with your trainer and you hear, “Engage your core.” But what does it really mean to…

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June 18, 2024 · In: Movement, Strength for Resilience

Best Gluteus Medius Exercises for Athletes

The gluteus medius (glute med) plays a pivotal role in the world of athletic performance. It sets the foundation of our hip stability, crucial for effective lateral movement, and important…

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balance exercises for seniors

April 16, 2024 · In: Movement, Strength for Resilience

A Complete Guide to Mastering Balance Exercises

As we age, maintaining independence becomes a priority and balance exercises are at the forefront of fall prevention. Imagine stepping forward confidently, each movement steady and secure. This vision can…

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strengthen your deep core

February 6, 2024 · In: Movement, Strength for Resilience

How to Strengthen Your Deep Core

If you’re looking to strengthen your deep core, this is going beyond your six-pack abs. One of the main muscles we will be focusing on that makes up your deep…

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Somewhere along the way, gentle movement became a Somewhere along the way, gentle movement became a genre instead of a description. A category of things, restorative yoga, gentle stretching, slow walks, that you’re supposed to do when you’re not up for a “real” workout. This means most days you either skip movement completely because nothing on that approved list sounds appealing or you push straight past it into something your body wasn’t actually ready for because gentle felt like admitting defeat.

Here’s the part nobody explains. Gentle was never supposed to be a fixed list of activities. It’s a match between whatever movement you’re choosing and where your nervous system actually is that day. On a Green Light day, a hike can be gentle. On a Red Light day, five minutes of walking around your kitchen can be more than enough. Calling it gentle isn’t you being soft, it’s you reading the room your body is actually in.

That’s the piece the standard advice skips. You can’t match movement to capacity if nobody’s taught you how to read your own capacity in the first place. That’s what the Traffic Light System is for. Not a chart to memorize, but a way to actually check where you are before you decide what “gentle” looks like today.

So the next time someone tells you to “just do something gentle,” ask yourself what your system needs today, not what the label says gentle should look like. Some days that’s a walk. Some days that’s getting down onto the floor and back up. Both count.

Comment “red” or “green,” whichever one today actually is. There’s no wrong answer.
It’s been sitting there for months. Maybe it was a It’s been sitting there for months. Maybe it was a gift or maybe you bought it yourself in a burst of “this year I’m going to actually rest.” Then, work picked up or one of the kids got sick, and the book stayed closed...same bookmark, same page, for weeks.

Every productivity hack tells you to schedule yourself in like an appointment. To block the time and treat it as non-negotiable. That misses the real problem. You can put an hour on the calendar and still not open the book because the block was never the missing piece. What’s missing is a nervous system that has to believe stopping is actually safe before any schedule works.

You’ve told yourself it’s because you’re busy. And if you’re honest, it’s quieter than that. Every time you chose between something for yourself and one more thing for someone else, someone else won. Not because you’re weak, but because somewhere along the way, your body learned that stopping wasn’t safe, so it stopped asking to be prioritized at all.

That’s not poor time management. That’s the sign. The women who are just busy find the five minutes. The ones who take care of everyone else first, don’t. Their own needs stopped registering as needs a long time ago and “later” became the answer to everything that was actually about them. And right now, with school starting back up in a few weeks and every calendar about to fill in again, this is exactly the season it gets worse, not better.

You are not broken. You are dysregulated. The order matters and the fix isn’t a better system. It’s teaching your nervous system that it’s allowed to stop before it’s forced to.

Open the book tonight, even for two minutes. Not to finish it, just to prove to your body that stopping doesn’t cost you anything. Then, save this for the next time you need the reminder.
Everyone treats the moment pain stops as the finis Everyone treats the moment pain stops as the finish line. It’s not. I’m currently two weeks into the longest pain-free stretch I’ve had in a long time, and this afternoon, I still braced myself to load the dishwasher. I had hands on the counter and on my thighs doing everything I could to avoid just bending forward. Then I stepped back and stood there and nothing hurt. So I bent down again, without any support, and it still didn’t hurt! My brain and movements are still anticipating what I’ve grown accustomed to.

So if you’re still bracing for a pain that already left, try this: next time you catch yourself hesitating, stop and ask, “is this pain or is this the memory or anticipation of pain?” That’s the whole gal. You’re not imagining it and you’re not behind. You’re just not caught up yet.

Save this for next time you catch yourself doing it. And follow along if you want to hear me talk more about this topic.
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